Daily Theories

I hope you will understand what I bring out in my notes of reality and falsehood of the world that we live in: these are daily thoughts of mine that I keep writing as ideas strike me:::::

People around me seem to be so busy with things that they don't stop and enjoy the second that is passing by them. I am the one to observe this. It might be because of the emptiness of my own life, or the boring sameness of the every day. I just stare into the eyes of the people,and it's as if they were dead bodies just glazing back at me, not through me. I might be able to say that I were different, but I can't tell from those who fake the normalcy and casualties of their lives from those who just have it. In other words, I might be the only one who thinks the way I do, but I can't say.

I was wondering if anyone just stares into the stars at night like I do, and thinks nothing but how wonderful it is. Just to enjoy this simple moment of the nighttime, I just wonder. I know I might sound self-centered in regard to all of this, but the truth is, to see your truth in the world around you, you must see the truth in yourself first. The reason I say "your truth" is because, my theory is that everyone will believe in what they think is right and reasonable. No one knows the truth to anything and that's the way it will be 'till the end of time.

It irritates me when people talk only about themselves and expect me to listen to them for all of it. I do, occasionally, find myself talking about myself and tell myself to stop bringing everyone's attention to me, but I figure, at that moment, if they do it, so can I. I guess it depends whether the conversation at hand is two-way or one-way. If it includes both partners in the conversation, then it's a positive one. Otherwise, the words that come out are just air to the listener.

It's a beautiful thing to feel recognized by a complete stranger. It can make your day seem a little bit more brighter than it was just a few moments before. But for those of you who've never had this experience, and even for those who have; the most important thing is to be appreciated and loved by your family. When a family gets together, even once in a while, it's important to just include everyone there in your conversations and love each other. Family is the best way for you to feel accepted and appreciated. And for those of you who aren't close with your families, I suggest you get to it, 'cuz family is the only thing you've got; and without it, you may find yourself to feel lost and emotionally under-nourished.

Have you ever noticed yourself aggravated and not knowing what to do for it?
Well, the thing to do is to express yourself. When you carry your emotional baggage around with you, it just becomes more heavy every minute. If you can find a close friend or even a family member, it would be best to communicate what you feel with them. But be careful in the manner it's discussed. Make sure you don't punch the person you're talking to as if they were a punching bag. They have emotions too and you don't want them to grow aggravation on their backs along with you. You must communicate in a manner of delicacy and in a sensitive way. If this way of communication isn't possible, you should take a pen out and write down all of your thoughts on the matter that's bothering you and then if you can, resolve it on the paper. When this is done, you will see how, in some cases, your aggravation will either disappear or diminish. Whichever the case, remember to allow yourself breathing space to think your thoughts out to present it in an orderly manner.

Compliments are payments of appreciation. When you get one from someone, anyone, don't be afraid to accept them. All they'll do is lighten your emotional status and you'll feel better about yourself. I know that when someone gives me a compliment, I turn it down. But the truth is, what is being done here is, you're telling the other person that he's not worthy of giving you or anyone else for that matter, a compliment. That is the total irony of it all: it's supposed to bring about happiness but in the end, sadness awaits (that is, if you don't accept the compliment). So be sure to feel proud about what you are and what you've accomplished, because others do.